恕

Is that true that men forget but never forgive while women forgive but never forget?

Any relationship takes time to build, and to maintain.  Marriage is no different and probably requires more efforts if there are more dramatic family members 'involved'.  So watching our love ones' marriage falling apart is never easy, especially when the little ones will also be affected.

As an outsider, there's really only so much we can 'advise' because at the end of the day, it takes two to pick up the pieces.  Some people would choose to move on, others would stay and give the marriage another chance.

There's no right or wrong.  Your character controls your destiny.